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How to Get Out of the House on Time with Kids

August 19, 2020 By Morgan Last Updated: December 7, 2020

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Leaving the house with kids in tow can feel impossible. Leaving the house on time is even harder! If you’re struggling to be on time with your kiddos, this post is for you.

As a kid, my dad was late to everything.

It’s a family curse – so much so that my Grandma always told my dad and uncles to show up a half hour early. That way, they’re usually ‘on time’.

Years of waiting outside school well past when the other kids had been picked up has left me with a compulsive need to be on time or early to things.

Running Late with Kids

And then I had 3 children in 5 years who now laugh at any semblance of being on time.

More often than not, I’m running in circles trying to get everything together so that we can get where we need to go on time. There is nothing that stresses me out more than feeling like I’m in a rush to get ready.

And, of course, my being stressed inevitably makes everyone else stressed, building into a giant stress fest that eventually erupts in tears, meltdowns, and/or yelling. Fun, right?

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Rules to Get Out of the House on Time

To help offset the craziness, I have set up some rules for myself to make it easier and to ensure I get out of the house on time.

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A place for everything.

The main culprit of being late is losing my keys. It’s a familial issue.

A few months ago we bought a cheap hook for our keys that we installed in a central place in our kitchen.

Now I put my keys there after I get home so I never have to go searching. It took a bit of time to build the habit, but it works now.

Alternately, try a tracker.

But if all else fails and you’re just one of those people who misplaces everything, I can’t recommend Tile more. It hooks to your phone’s bluetooth so you can go to the app and literally make your keys RING if they’re within 100 feet.

If they’re further, your phone can tell you where they last were. They even work with Alexa!

Bonus: it works in reverse, so if you tend to put your phone on silent and then misplace it (guilty, always) just press the button on your Tile and it will make your phone ring, even if it’s on silent.

Pack ahead. 

Moms – take note! Pack whatever you will need ahead of time so that you’re not scrambling last minute trying to remember everything.

This means diaper bags, car bags, night bags – whatever. If possible, set out clothes for you and the kids as well.

This may seem like overkill, but when you’re calmly strolling out of your house exactly when you intended to, you’ll be thankful.

Know how much time you need.

My boys need at least 30 minutes from start to finish to get ready and leave. It typically takes me about that to feed and prep the baby to leave. This isn’t including getting myself ready or cleaning up the house before I leave.

Because of this, I build in an hour for getting ready to leave. That way I have more than enough time to get myself ready, clean up the house a bit, change diapers, dole out snacks, and get everyone dressed.

Adding that buffer removes so much anxiety!

Start getting ready 15 minutes early.

To go with the above tip, build in an extra 15 minutes. Inevitably, someone will have a diaper blow out or a tantrum or need a snack or the dog will have to go out.

It’s just a fact of life.

I used to give myself 45 minutes to get ready, but while about 70% of the time that was fine, the rest of the time I was 15 minutes late.

Giving yourself that extra 15 minutes, needed or not, allows for the inevitable mishaps. Worst case scenario, you’re sitting on your couch scrolling through TikTok for 15 minutes.

Be easy on yourself.

Look, you can prepare all you want, but life happens.

You stub your toe, your dog knocks over his water, your toddler rolls around in it, the cat starts coughing up fur balls, your infant decides she needs to eat thisveryminute – life happens.

You probably won’t bat 1000 on leaving the house on time –and that’s okay.

The world will not end. Your friend/mom/boss/teacher will understand – just don’t let it happen every day, will ya?

So tell me – are you always late? Does being late drive you nuts? Were your parents late when you were a kid? Let me know in the comments!

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  1. Heather @ Polyglot Jot says

    September 8, 2016 at 8:56 am

    Great tips! I’ve always been a 5 minutes early person and I get so frustrated when people are late (mind you, without kids! I understand with kids!) I hope I can stay on top of things when I do have kids!

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  2. Emily says

    September 8, 2016 at 10:14 am

    How did you know that I needed this? I think the biggest thing for me is being prepared so I’m not stressed out when people need to leave and remembering that the world does not depend on me, and it’s okay if I’m 5 minutes late have been two great things to remember. It will really help for me to be realistic about the time needed to get ready too.

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  3. Ellen @ My Uncommon Everyday says

    September 8, 2016 at 8:57 pm

    Being late is a huge point of anxiety for me. I’m totally the person sitting outside my classrooms for 15 minutes before class starts, and it drives my crazy that no one my age wants to meet at the time we all agree on. All of my study groups and clubs start at least 10 minutes late. It’s a whole different ball game with kids, but if you’re 20 years old and just can’t drag yourself away from Netflix for the sake of respecting the group, STOP.

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  4. Evangeline says

    September 8, 2016 at 10:25 pm

    I think I inherited a chronic tardy gene. I’m always running late. I think for me, I just get really side tracked with a project or task, and then I lose track of time. Argh! Thanks for these tips! Packing ahead is such a super way to stay on top of things. That way I’m not running around, last minute, trying to organize and find all the things I need.

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  5. Kristy from Southern In Law says

    September 8, 2016 at 11:03 pm

    Umm so I need to bookmark these tips for when I have kids one day as I’m someone who believes that on time is late and I know if I don’t sort my future family out I’ll be dying of stress everytime we have to go somewhere, haha!

    My sister is chronically late to everything and it drives me nuts!

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  6. Kendall says

    September 9, 2016 at 8:47 am

    Such awesome tips! I strive to be to places on time, even with the boys. Most of the time, when I prepare myself and plan appropriately, there’s not an issue. But, sometimes I still struggle. When it’s a family thing, unless it’s a Super Huge Deal, we’re not on time. Funny how that happens lol 🙂

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  7. Erin @ Stay at Home Yogi says

    September 11, 2016 at 6:13 pm

    Great tips! My sister is the chronically late one in our family. I always lie and tell her things are starting 15 minutes before they actually are – then she’s only 25 minutes or so late! lol
    I have found I always need to add 10 minutes to everything just for putting on shoes and getting in the car (with 1.5 and 3 year olds). Otherwise I am a rushed, flustered, mean mommy impatiently shoving the shoes on their little feet! That’s not fun for anyone!

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    • Morgan says

      September 20, 2016 at 3:58 pm

      Yes! I swear if I don’t give myself enough time, the stress of being late always makes me so much less patient with my kids and stressed out which just dominos into a really bad trip.

  8. Michelle says

    September 13, 2016 at 8:16 pm

    I was lucky to have a mom who had it in control. We were never late. I come from the opposite side of always waiting for people because I too am always on time. I love your hints to pass on to the “untimely ” people in my world! Lol
    Thanks
    Michelle

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    • Morgan says

      September 20, 2016 at 3:51 pm

      You lived my dream! I think growing up always late helped me understand/accept the late people now, but man at the time – I was not a fan!!

  9. Jamie Marie says

    September 14, 2016 at 5:59 pm

    Very informational! I never get anywhere on time, sometimes its the kids fault sometimes its my husbands fault!
    Thanks so much for sharing with us on the Homesteader hop!

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    • Morgan says

      September 20, 2016 at 3:42 pm

      It’s hard! My husband also keeps us late as well – ugh!

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